Psychosexual & relationship therapy

Space to explore intimacy, sex and relationships.

Free 15-minute consultation call  ·  Confidential  ·  COSRT-registered therapists

Who we are

A space to explore sex, intimacy and relationships.

We’re Ilka and Emma, psychosexual and relationship therapists working with individuals, couples and polycules.

We work with people from all areas of life, across the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, heterosexuals and are queer-affirming, trans-affirming and neuroaffirming. We welcome different ways of relating, communicating and experiencing intimacy, including non-monogamy and kink.

You might come to us with a specific sexual or relationship concern, something you’ve been thinking about for a while or simply a sense that you’d like things to feel different.

You don’t need to have everything worked out before you get in touch.

Ilka and Emma standing together outdoors under a tree

What you can bring

People come to us to explore:

Relationships & connection

  • Communication and conflict
  • Differences in desire
  • Feeling disconnected from yourself or your partner(s)
  • Exploring different relationship structures and non-monogamy

Sexual functioning & sexual wellbeing

  • Vaginismus and pain during sex
  • Erectile difficulties and performance worries
  • Changes in libido and desire
  • Sex and intimacy alongside illness, medical treatment or changes in the body

Desire, pleasure & sexuality

  • Exploring pleasure, fantasies and what you want
  • Reconnecting with your body
  • Exploring sexuality and gender
  • Kink, with a kink-affirming approach

Getting started

How to start.

Get in touch

Tell us what you’re looking for, and whether you’d prefer to work with Emma or Ilka.

Book a free 15-minute consultation call

A no-obligation chance to talk through what’s brought you here and get a feel for whether we’re the right fit.

Before we meet

We’ll send you a referral form and a short therapy preferences questionnaire to complete beforehand.

Your initial consultation

A longer first session of 75 minutes at a reduced rate, to understand what’s brought you here and set some initial aims.

Ongoing therapy

We ask clients to begin with eight weekly 50-minute sessions, continuing weekly or fortnightly from there.

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Have a look around.

Ready for your half-time?

Get in touch and book a free 15-minute consultation call — a no-obligation chance to talk through what’s brought you here, ask any questions, and get a feel for whether we’re the right fit.

Confidential  ·  Affirming  ·  Concession spaces available  ·  COSRT-registered